Mom beaten unconscious by school bully who threatened her son, prosecutors say

PASSAIC, N.J. — A 13-year-old boy was arrested after allegedly assaulting a mother and her son in New Jersey last week.

It happened on June 19 after 3 p.m. on Lexington Avenue near Monroe Street in Passaic.

Beronica Ruiz was pushing her 1-year-old in a stroller, walking home from school with her 12-year-old and 8-year-old sons when they realized they were being followed by a group of three boys.

"My life changed in one second," said Ruiz, "Because now I don’t feel safe in any place."

Her right eye is bloodshot. Her eye socket, fractured and bruised, after a punch to the face by an alleged bully who first targeted her 12-year-old son.

Ruiz suffered a concussion and can’t remember the attack. But her children witnessed it all.

"She was unconscious with my baby in the stroller," said Alfonso Vasquez, Ruiz's husband. Their 12-year-old son was also struck in the face.

The attack stemmed from an argument on June 18 in the lunchroom at Passaic Gifted and Talented Academy Public School No. 20.

"These kid were telling the Mexicans that all the Mexicans should be behind the wall," said Vasquez. "My son told them what are you talking about? We are all immigrants."

His son was allegedly threatened with violence and sought help from a teacher.

He was then placed in a separate room or an office for the rest of the school day for his own protection, according to WPIX. His parents went to talk to school administrators, who did not call Ruiz and her husband about the incident in school that day. Ruiz and Vasquez say the vice principal apologized to them for not notifying them about the incident but stated the situation was under control.

Ruiz said she and her son were attacked later that day.

While she was in the hospital, the alleged bully was still allowed to attend school, according to the family.

"We send our kids to school with the intention they will be safe," said the family's attorney, Daniel Santiago. "What's appalling about that is the school was aware of the incident."

The 13-year-old alleged attacker has been charged with assault and released to his parents, but the family feels this was more than just a simple assault – it was a hate crime.

"Because this all started because of those words," said Vasquez. "They hate us because we are Mexican."

The Passaic County Prosecutors Office is handling the investigation.

"This is the face of racism. This is the face of hatred in America," said Santiago.

A spokesman for the school district said they can’t comment on student matters.

Passaic mayor, Hector C. Lora told WPIX in a statement that he has met with local authorities and the school administration:

“As both a father and a husband I am outraged over this incident as Mayor these are things you wish would never occur in your city or anywhere. This incident is being taken extremely seriously I have met with and spoken personally with the family, I have met with my Chief of Police, local officials and school administration as well as board members to make sure there is accountability and that this family receives justice as well as any help and resources we can provide. The details regarding what led up to this incident remain under investigation however one thing is very clear what occurred to this mother is unacceptable and whatever we need to do as a city, as a community to do better by our families and our children we will do."

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  • Linda L Alkire

    Is anyone considering the Schools reaction/policy to handling bullying? The School should have isolated the perpetrators NOT THE VICTIM and sent a clear message that the School has ZERO tolerance for bulling. Notice how the School’s procedure sends a backwards message that is confusing. Students need guidance in these situations and the School should be there to facilitate that education. additionally the School should have immediately notified both sets of parents and held a special meeting that day..where the bully would have been suspended. Stomp it out before it grows. Parents you need to go to your schools Policy review meeting and help develop exceptionable policy and procedures for the safety of your children and the community.

  • K

    This is a sickening problem, even in Michigan. Students are bullied and if they even remotely defend themselves they are punished as severely or more so than the perpetrator. Students then stay home from school to be safe. So then the schools threaten the parents of truancy (more than 10 days), so they are forced to send them into harms way. And the schools know and watch (cameras and video) without addressing the bully at all. This horrible act is only getting attention because the adult was attacked. Many of the kids feel they have no other way out than suicide. Unfortunately, this has become the norm and is not being addressed. We need to hold those who are supposed to protect our kids accountable. If parents allowed this this to happen they would be in jail yet no one is accountable at the schools?

    • Devona M Hunter

      This is just sad….
      Behavior of your kids start at home and im pretty sure the parents noticed this angry child behavior before this took place. Parents/custodial parents pay attention to your children. This should be handled appropriately, this child need to be punished by law no family should have to go through being attacked by bullies

  • justice

    soo..they isolate the kid who is being bullied instead of kicking the BULLY out of school??? WTF?… fire the staff and hire people with brains that actually work.

  • Heather Jonker

    The school and the bullies parents need to be held accountable. School admins need to be fired and charged as accessories, parent should have children removed and also charged as accessories. Bully should be held in a detention center and work to pay for victims hospital expenses.

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